New Things I Know For Sure

1) French women wear their hair messy and it looks great.
2) 19 out of 20 people in France wear scarves
3) French men remind me of Robin Williams
4) There is nothing cuter than little French kids

Today Micalie and I got up and headed to The Franco American Institute to meet her program coordinator, Adelaide.  Her office is in an amazing, centuries-old building by the Republic, complete with squeaky wood floors, 14′ ceilings, crown molding everywhere and ancient multi-paned windows.  She gave us a quick tour, then offered us coffee.  I really want to experience everything here, so was looking forward to my very first cup of authentic “café”. I don’t know what I was thinking, but she went to their little kitchenette and pulled out some very fine, delicate china cups and asked if we wanted sugar.  We both said yes, and got two sugar cubes wrapped in a foil and a tiny little spoon to stir it with.  Then she poured the café.  It was the thickest, darkest brew I had ever seen.  I don’t drink coffee at home, much less something this exotic, but both Micalie and I did our best to swallow it down.  It did warm our hands.

We walked to the mall and browsed the little shops there – not unlike those you would find at Southdale or Rosedale. After riding the bus to the center of the town, we take the Metro (subway) to the area we want, then it is walking everywhere after that.  Escalators take us up two flights out of the tunnels, and we follow the cobblestone streets to our destination.

We had “lunch” at Micalie’s school.  It wasn’t exactly like “dining services” at Concordia, but the food was good, plentiful and cheap!  The Diet Coke, however was not.  I think that will be my last one – it’s nothing like the Diet Coke I crave here.  From there, we walked around for 8 hours, but I think we were pretty much in a 6-block radius!  Every little narrow street holds more treasures than I could count.  We took photos of ironwork, doors, windows, chimneys – and tried to get shots of them looking like letters.  The most amazing shop was a triangular shape inside and probably no more than 8 feet wide!  The proprietor let me photograph his wares.

The best part of the day was spent at “Creperie St. Ann” – sitting in the sunshine outdoors with glasses of wine and a banana nutella crepe.  I truly felt like I was on vacation and finally relaxing after the crazy past few weeks.

We got back to the house about 7 PM and spent time drawing and playing “Gares” with Alana and watching Baptiste achieve “Victories” on the Wii. Christophe came home and shared wines from local distributors – in Sauvignon and Bergerac and we enjoyed a soft Rosé with dinner!  The conversation was lively with Micalie doing the translations – funny how the children seem to know what I am saying the most.

Valérie and Christophe are very gracious hosts and have made me feel so very welcome! Tomorrow we are off on an excursion with the family – can’t wait!

Terry’s Incredible Adventure in France – 2012

I arrived at Charles de Gaulle airport this morning (7 AM) Paris time.  When I got to the airport and tried to get my train ticket, it was from the wrong location! I couldn’t exchange the ticket because it was on Micalie’s credit card, but neither of my cards would work – and I didn’t have euros!!  I also didn’t have a phone and couldn’t let Micalie know I was going to be on a later train.  Yikes.  I got it all figured out with the help of some friendly people – (Yes, the French are very friendly).

The train ride to Rennes was amazing – beautiful fields of yellow flowers everywhere – and we spent the rest of the day sitting in the sunshine, eating galletts and crepes and looking at the town.  Tonight Valerie made us a delicious meal and I enjoyed “visiting” with the little ones – they loved the gifts I brought!  Best of all, I am with Micalie – I didn’t realize how much I missed her!

Giving Books

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In early December I had the privilege of visiting People Serving People – a homeless shelter in downtown Minneapolis who partners with Hennepin County to provide food, lodging and services to people in transition.  It was an amazing visit.  Our purpose was to photograph and interview children and make them their very own book.

Many of these children haven’t even seen photos of themselves, let alone have a book to read.  Melissa Tomas, a Heritage Maker’s consultant in Blaine, Minnesota started this program last summer.  Here is her story -

“For the last two summers I have tried to find a way to get my children involved in helping others via charity work of some sort. Two years ago I called a local homeless shelter and learned about their tutoring program. The hours were strictly defined and I could only bring two out of my three children because of age restrictions. So we were unable to do that effort. I was searching for a location, and a connection…

Last April, Jon Bon Jovi came to sing in our area and while he was here he visited a shelter called “People Serving People.” On the tour of the shelter Jon stated that it was the best shelter he’d ever seen, better than any other city in the US.  I saw the video that PSP made of his visit and I thought….if it’s the best in the US, it must be the best in Minneapolis. So I called to schedule myself on their next open tour.

Days before visiting I was still trying to figure out what gifts I had to offer to them. I knew there had to be something special I could do. Something I could start and then involve our kids once summer started. I went to bed with this on my mind….the next morning I woke up with Candy May’s “Tucked In” book on my mind. And just like that I thought…I KNOW what our books can do for children with a home and a secure family. Think of what our books could do for a child without a secure family or home. Amazing! Sometimes it just takes one person believing in another to make a difference. What if we told these kids how special they are, we encouraged them to dream, and to reach those dreams?

So I went on the tour and while there I learned some startling statistics that further solidified my direction. I learned that homeless children are often without any photos. Even if they have a camera, they can’t afford to develop film. Nor do they have a computer to store digital files, or a home with internet. They have no scrapbooks, no links to their family…no heritage. I also learned that there is a serious shortage of books in the shelters. No wonder kids are often a full grade level behind. The average ratio in the inner cities for children and books is: 300 kids per 1 book. Inner city daycares, preschools and shelters with NO books for small children. I just didn’t realize. 60% of the population at People Serving People is children.

I shared my ideas with the contacts at People Serving People and they LOVED it. One of the administrators put her hand on my arm and said, “these kids leave here clutching a ducky board book. What are they going to do when given a book of their very own with their own photos and name in it? What you are doing for these kids is priceless.”  I cried. Within 4 days I was back with a photographer along and we made Danyla’s book using the “tucked in” book…but I changed the poem to suit these kids.”

So on November 30th, my friend Jonell and I drove to the shelter and met several other Heritage Makers’ consultants and two photographers to visit the kids.  Our contact gave us a quick tour and told us things about the shelter.  They provide “3 Hot and a Cot” to everyone they can accommodate. Minneapolis School Buses pick kids up there to take them to they home districts so their education is interrupted as little as possible.  They serve 1000 meals every day and use volunteers to help them.  They have 200+ kids there on any given day and provide day care facilities so the parents can work at finding a job.  They have a small computer lab available for online applications.  300 – 400 people sleep there every night.  They need every kind of donation, from food to toiletries to career clothing (NOT 80’s retro) so people can have something nice to wear for a job interview.  (Even jewelry, scarves, make-up) and books – books for their little library.  They let kids borrow books and keep them if they like so they always need more.

Then we got to meet the children. Jonell, Lisa, Barb and I were introduced to the “toddler room”.  The kids were outside playing, so we started there.  We asked them their names and what they liked to do – and made notes of what they were wearing and some identifying things so we could sort our photos out later.

TaySean

We got photos of them playing and looking at a book and cuddling a toy.

Evion

If their parent was available and willing, we would photograph them with their child.

Elijah

I fell in love with my little Kenye who was outside but very sleepy.  She would be the subject of my first book.

Kenye

We stayed for an hour and promised to be back.  We got amazing photos – thanks to Lisa Hughes who is also a Heritage Maker’s consultant.

Draude

Lisa uploaded them into a special “Tucked In Minnesota” account that Heritage Makers set up for us, and we worked on our projects.  Once they are published, we will head back to PSP and give them to our families.  We want them to know how very special they are and that they can achieve anything they want to in this world.  We wish them well.

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Want to help?  People Serving People takes donations of all kinds – cash, gas cards, food, toiletries, jewelry, scarves, purses, makeup, career clothing (current), books, art supplies – just about anything!  Get it to me and I will take it in on my next trip.  You can also donate money or Heritage Maker’s points to help cover the cost of publishing and shipping the books.  Give me a call at 320-583-9100 if you would like to be a book maker and go along on one of our visits!

Merry Christmas!

This season give your enemy, forgiveness. To an opponent, tolerance.  To a friend, your heart.  To a customer, service.  To every child, a good example.  To all, charity.  For Christmas is not a time or a season but a state of mind.  To cherish peace and good will, to be plenteous in mercy, this is the real spirit of Christmas.   ~ Oren Arnold

Merry Christmas!  My wish for you is that the spirit of the season carry on throughout the year.  Sharing, loving, giving, are not intended to be put away and simply pulled out once a year like lights and ornaments.  Let them be prevalent and contagious in your daily life. The greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the kindness and love given to others year round.

2012 is soon upon us.  I want you to know how much I value your support and love. As a song from the movie White Christmas shares “If you’re worried and can’t sleep, count your blessings instead of sheep.”

Thank you for being with me in 2011.  May your blessings be abundant in 2012.

Terry

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